Lost is over and I actually miss it…

560.lost.promo.lc.031109Six years of roller coaster loop de’ loops, dozens of undeveloped characters, and a story line that was as easy to follow as a chicken in a barnyard.

If you didn’t watch Lost, you missed a show which challenged the fan to no end.  Season after season of questions, theories, hypotheses’, cliff hanging plots, and a series of hidden messages and themes.

It began with a crash and turned into an expose of human nature and the complexity of interaction.

At times, the show pissed me off because just when a storyline seemed complete, the curve ball was thrown and there was always something just off, just missing, just left unanswered, and just off center enough to encourage you to strap yourself in and get ready for the next season.  This made me mad because I loved the show so much and I wanted to see closure, but then again I didn’t.  I wanted to know what the smoke monster was, but the mystery of not knowing was more intriguing.

I had a hunch that nobody had survived the Oceanic crash, but the development of the island as a central theme of the story started to sway me differently.  How could this be an afterlife with all of this other stuff going on??  The Dharma complex, the others, the hatch, the well, and the light in the middle of the island.

Maybe I should have known better, maybe I should have not bought into the hype like I did and went with my gut.  Well, in a way I did, every week and every season I would tell myself, “oh yeah, this is some sort of test or challenge to these people, a redemption, a time of judgement.”   Then in a complete switch of events, whatever theory I had was shattered.  That was the real hook of the show, it was flawed, it was confusing, and it constantly tempted you to come back for more.

The show is over and those who followed these characters for six years know the truth.  It wasn’t a big surprise but it still surprised, if that makes sense.  Some thought it was anti-climatic and others I know were bawling their eyes out in sadness.

I will not judge the quality of the ending, but I am glad it ended.  I can put these people to rest once and for all…though I will miss them.

Teetering on the edge…how does Bret Michaels do it?

michaels2 I have to give Bret Michaels credit, he has battled a life of disease and he keeps bouncing back. 

At the age of six, he was diagonosed with Type I diabetes and has struggled to maintain his health all the while becoming an 80’s glam metal rock god, a history of hard hard partying, and what seems to be a constant limelight on his fame and health.

Over the years, Michaels has nearly died numerous times from a lethal mix of booze and his own personal battle with diabetes.  Just in the last year, Michaels has suffered an emergency appendectomy, just weeks later he’s rushed back to the emergency room with an intense headache which turns out to be a brain hemorrage.  Just the other day, he is again rushed to the ER while suffering a mild stroke and doctors discover a small hole in his heart called a Patent Forum Ovale.  The condition is treatable but Michaels will be forced to rest again.

I see Michael’s story as a sort of wake up call to the average person out there who is convinced they are in tip top shape.  Granted he has not taken the greatest care of his internal organs over the years, but looking at him, he’s thin, fit, and has the financial means to eat right and take care of himself.  What scares me is the thought that diabetes has taken a toll on him.  This internal tornado has been wreaking havoc on his body over the years and sadly I think his own doctors know why this is happening.  It’s a very hard condition to control, it takes constant discipline, sugar control, and lifestyle modifications forever.   Michaels is a shining example of the sick kid who has masked a serious condition for years with glitz, fame, sex, music, and any poppy distraction that the normal sufferer isn’t able to do. 

Maybe he’s been hit with incredibly bad luck the last six months, is he being tested by somebody bigger.  Be what it may, I hope he pulls through this and he can get back to the semi-slimy Bret we love to follow.

Where have we been?

Well, a few good men and an even better woman started the idea of this blog and we owe it to someone to unspill the contents of our head, or at least mine.

The time has come to once again say all the things I want to say and it’s an invitation for you as well!

It’s a re-birth of sorts!  So much has gone on in the world and has seemingly blown right by us, well it’s now time to play some catch up.

Hello 2010…and hello…again to all of you !

So why are more companies not yet hiring?

unemploymentU.S. Workers are still filing a large amount of unemployment claims and this is after five weeks of declines in this area.

Where are the culprits and which industries are still hurting?  It’s apparent as we have seen over the last year is that a gradual stabilization of the economy does not naturally translate to a increase in the labor market stability.

The gripping effects of the recession have no indications of going into a double dip as economist like to call it, trade gaps are narrowing, imports and exports are up, and yet bottom line profits are not improving.

Where are the jobs going and why even after the influx of billions of dollars in stimulus funds…the unemployment rate still hovers around 9-10%?

Facebook is down…Facebook is down…5:42 (cst)

facebook_logoThis website is not a help desk for Facebook but it’s a civic duty to keep the American public aware of all possible natural disasters!!

Facebook is down!  Facebook is down!  Don’t toss your Iphone in the river or hurl it at your wife and complain that it doesn’t work worth a s***.

Here is the current update from the gods as Facebook: 

A small subset of canvas applications are sporadically not being redirected to their callback URLs.  We are addressing the issue and will update when this is resolved.

Of course, if you receive this RSS feed through your Facebook account, god help you man!

 

Hot new golfer to challenge Tiger’s limelight

john-dalyIt’s tough not to hear Tiger Woods’ name in the media of late with all this marital infedelity hoopla and now text messages coming out from his brood of women across the country. 

Frankly, it’s getting old and let’s focus our attention on those athletes who don’t get all the attention. 

Especially those golfers who shy away from the media hype, don’t get into trouble with the law, and keep a very low profile.

For instance, this fancy clad duffer is making an impression on the golf community.  A relative unknown among the ranks of professional golf but slowy and steadily making the upward swing into the ranks of Tiger, Phil, and Padraig.

Athletic, fit, trim and I cannot wait to watch him….err wait…who is this guy?

This is JOHN DALY !!!!

For those not familiar, Daly has lost a total of 185 lbs after Lap Band surgery.  He is exercising, not drinking as much, and is now forced to control is eating.  You’ve got to be kidding me!!??!!??!!

Eight years of success turns into one year of demise for Kansas coach Mark Mangino

maginosThe story and the jokes can finally come to an end.  Sports fans throughout the midwest have been following the fate of KU head football coach Mark Mangino and allegations that he verbally and physically abused his  players.

Well fans, now that he has resigned and the weeks of rumors and headlines about his coaching future will likely cease, what now?

If the allegations are true then Mangino and his family will have to deal with the matter outside of KU football and it’s possible we will see little coverage of the story anymore, we might, but news about “has beens” is never interesting and doesn’t last long.

I’m all about treating people fairly and respecting the rights of individuals and to think that a coach might be over the top and potentially abusive to players is unacceptable.  I have touched on the earlier stories of coaches literally working their players to death and it’s inexcusable, it’s football…not the Roman gladiator training program.

What has always rubbed me wrong is how perspectives and viewpoints are influenced.  In the world of competitive collegiate sports, it’s obvious that viewpoints are swayed by wins and losses.    One year ago I attended a KU/KState football game in Lawrence, KS and the energy was incredible, fifty thousand screaming fans, aroma of BBQ in the air, beer flowing, and the weather was perfect.

The KU football team comes bouncing out of the locker room facility and the place erupts and behind the team walks  this short, very heavy though almost regal figure…Coach Mangino. 

Yes, he is a very heavy man and he is short…he looked more like a godfather then a college football coach.  The man had an entourage, students alike were chanting Mangino, young guys wearing the infamous “My Coach can eat Yours” T-shirt, however, the man was beloved and he entered the field like Elvis would have been greeted entering a concert venue.

Why?  KU was playing well and they had just come off an Orange Bowl victory.  The man could do no wrong, he was adored, on all the radio shows, the center of attention, the KU football program was in a state of euphoria which hadn’t been seen in years or maybe never. 

Football was never KU’s sport until Mangino came along and it will only improve with a qualified replacement .  The fat jokes are funny to a point but what happens is that he is eventually defined by his personal appearance.  When your team is 12-1, obviously you’re untouchable and these young men who supposedly suffered at the hands of Mangino apparently never came forward or it just wasn’t the right time. 

I am in no way condoning the abuse of players, but do losing coaches have to endure more than the feeling of failure that comes with a losing season?  It has to be compounded by outside influences deciding to come forward?  Maybe Coach Mangino got cocky and aggressive with his new found success, maybe his level of expectations rose to a point that he tolerated very little from his players, maybe KU football players for the first time finally experienced life as losers in a WINNING PROGRAM!!   Ding Ding!   I don’t imagine Bob Stoops is a fun guy to be around when the Sooners lose and I don’t imagine practices are cupcakes and sweet tea. 

Bham! Your team is now 5-7 and you make horrible coaching decisions in your own end zone, you’re history.  I am very anxious to see if these lawsuits and reports of abuse will actually come to fruition and formal charges carried out against him…or was this a nice, vindictive way to oust a head coach out of a program that only ten years ago was the laughing stock of the Big 12.

Let’s hope Bill Self doesn’t contract some glandular condition which balloons him to 300 lbs…I can only imagine how quickly the search for a new coach will be underway.

Tiger’s “cat” is almost out of the bag

tiger_460Of course we couldn’t wait too long before throwing in our own two cents about the Woods story, it wouldn’t be American!

I’m getting to the point where I’m getting angry because this is now a public issue. 

It’s private until Tiger hopped behind the wheel and crashed his vehicle. 

It’s private until the police are called and a report is called in of a man appearing to be unconscious laying in the grass.

A private matter does not erupt into the street with a crazed blond woman smashing out the windows of a $70, 000 SUV.

A private matter does not involve neighbors supposedly hearing Woods screaming “You’ve ruined Thanksgiving, way to go!”

A private matter sure as hell does not involve state troopers, a trip the ER, and neighbors.

This is a classic “who done it?” scenario playing out for the Woods’ family and I wish Tiger would man up and admit what happened.  This didn’t happen behind closed doors and it was not hidden from the authorities so there is nothing private about it. 

The stories are swirling and most seem pretty credible based on how this accident played out.  It’s been thought Tiger’s wife beat him with his own clubs and forced him to flee the house, thus crashing his SUV.    Now this version sounds the most dramatic, and all kidding aside, does sound like a likely scenario.  Even Wanda Sykes is chiming in and wonders if Tiger’s wife has just as good club selection as he does….funny. 

Regardless, it happened and not allowing the police to do their job is pathetic.  Tiger, you’re rich and the best golfer in the world but you are also a tax paying citizen and when your domestic issues get out of hand, people will know.  

No different then the Jones’es down the street …

Come on ABC…Lambert only kissed another guy, big deal

adam-lambert2What’s wrong ABC?  You can’t allow a very flamboyant and talented singer on GMA?

However, you have prime time shows that openly display homosexual men/women and sometimes they kiss! 

Brothers and Sisters, Modern Family, Grey’s Anatomy, they all have gay characters who quite frequently engaged in PDA.   Granted, these are actors but there is no difference.

Adam Lambert grabbed a guy and gave him a smack on the lips on live TV.  Oh noooooooooo!

Wow! Those facebook pics sure got some attention!

15463173Interesting story out of Quebec, if you haven’t read the article, do so.  Once again, a story comes along that just sends my editorial neurons out of whack. 

So, you go to the doctor and are diagnosed with severe depression…so severe that she is forced to go on short term disability for a year from her employer…all the while receiving payments from her employer’s insurance carrier.

All of this sounds normal to me, except for one thing…the diagnosis of the depression.  I am not a shrink and I don’t hob nob in the circles of shrinkdom and psychiatric medicine, but I am curious as to how “definitive” a diagnosis of clinical depression really is. 

She was seen by a doctor, she was told she was depressed, she was also told to see friends as a way to get herself better…still sounds relatively normal to me….but…..

In my blogging view, if you can jump around the beach, visit your friends, smile for random party pics, and post them on your facebook account…how come you can’t wake up and go to work?

Insurance companies use these tactics all the time to avoid fraud and in many opinions other then mine, this woman committed insurance fraud, or at least in the eyes of the insurance carrier. 

There are issues with what happened here.  It is sad that insurance carriers are forced to take these measures because there is so much fraud in the claims arena, what other option do they have? Video taping customers is common practice especially when money is involved, money that ultimately is funded by you and I.

The insurance companies definition of “depressed” obviously differs from the doctor’s.  All the while, Miss Blanchard fell victim to her own social networking profile (tch tch tch)….and her decision to post them was a costly one.   (Oh and for all those “right to privacy” fanatics out there please shush yourself…the Internet isn’t private but you already knew that) 

In the end, with a slick attorney, she will probably get her money back…but ask yourself something…after seeing an incident like this…are you sure you want to post some of those pics?

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